Let me just tell you right off the bat – I’m so over winter! I’ve never been a huge fan, and although this year it’s been a mild one in our part of the world, I’m still having spring fever. How much looonger? You with me?
Winter has always been a sort of hibernation season for me. I lose some of my steam and would rather sip tea and watch movies than do anything productive. This year, it’s been even more so. I can’t even remember a season of so little creation when it comes to crafting. I guess it’s a transitional time for me. For a long time, I was super focused on this blog and I put all my free time into it, but now my priorities have shifted. It’s not that I don’t want to create – my creative energy just flows into a different project at the moment.
I’m gathering that steam up again, though. Because I really miss that rush of finishing a sewing project. Because I miss writing in this space. Because I have a huge list of things I NEED to make ASAP – for the baby, for myself, and for hubby as well. And most of all, because creating something tangible out of scratch just fills me up in a whole other way.
Outfit details: maternity blouse – thrifted+refashioned / cardigan – thrifted / maternity tank top (not visible) – DIY (tutorial coming soon) / maternity jeans – refashioned from these (tutorial coming soon) / shoulder bag – thrifted / boots – thrifted
In other random news, the baby belly just keeps on growing at an alarming speed. I have 15 weeks to go, so it’s a bit intimidating to look at the size of it already. The weird thing is that I don’t even notice the size until I look at the pics. I looks huge to myself in these! I’m not complaining, though. It’s all part of growing a tiny human.
For those of you curious about my maternity style sources, I’m sticking to mostly things I already had or have thrifted as a maternity addition. I really wanted to stick to only me-mades and thrifted goods, but I did cave in on a maternity coat. I just couldn’t fit in any of my existing ones, and couldn’t find anything suitable on a thrifting spree we did recently. I had major guilt about it, but I do have to wear something for the next couple of months.
One thing that has become increasingly clear to me through my capsule wardrobe challenges and this pregnancy is how little clothing I actually need. Right now, I have 1 pair of jeans and 2 pairs of leggings, and that’s honestly enough for my everyday wear. Even now, I have more clothes in my closet than I wear throughout a month.
I’m going to write a whole post about the implications of this realisation, but for now, let me just say – less truly is more, ladies!
We’re having a GIRL! I sort of spilled the beans in my last post (accidentally), but you might not have picked up on that, so here’s the official announcement. I also thought I’d give you a bump update as we’re past the halfway point already.
First of all, I can’t believe I’m at 22 weeks already. Then again, I can’t wait for this little lady to make her appearance. We still have a long way to go, it seems, but it will probably feel like a second.
How am I feeling? This pregnancy has been a fairly easy one so far. Yes, I was nauseous for 4 weeks at the beginning, and felt really tired for the first 2 months, but these are minor things in the grand scheme of things. The only thing troubling me at this point is a looming bladder infection. I had one over Christmas, got treated, but didn’t quite get it out of my system. I’ve had troubles with it in the past, so my doctor did warn me this was likely to happen. It’s a bummer, but I’m trying to keep myself warm, and drink plenty of water.
Any major/weird cravings? Nope. I had a huge appetite and major cravings at the end of my first trimester, but once the second trimester rolled around, everything went back to normal. Even my appetite. In fact, I felt pretty much the same as before the pregnancy at that point. I still eat more than I did before I was pregnant, but I’m not constantly hungry anymore. And I don’r crave anything specific these days. Ok, so I might have had a craving for ice cream yesterday, but those are like those normal cravings that anyone gets from time to time.
Have I turned into a pregosaurus yet? I read a lot about hormones going wild during pregnancy, and women being hyper emotional and what not, so I was anxious to see if I would change in any way emotionally. So far so good, though. I’m totally still myself, which is such a relief.
Baby prep. You might be wondering how we’re doing with the preparations. Well, we have gotten a few things for the baby, but at this point, most things are still just plans. My goal is to make this our thrifty budget baby, so I’m trying to get most things from friends and family, or thrift shops. We don’t have a huge budget to spend, so we have to get creative. Then again, I’m trying to move toward a more sustainable lifestyle, and buying less and reusing more is definitely a good thing.
The weird thing is that I haven’t made anything for the baby yet. I have a few plans, but to be honest, I’m not really excited about sewing clothing for the baby as I know she’ll grow out of it in just a few short weeks. It just doesn’t make sense. What I do want to make her is a knitted blanket, a quilt, and a bed set (or 3).
I feel like I’m taking a long break from creating overall. I guess the main reason is the change in my focus. All my energy goes to building my coaching business at the moment, so I don’t prioritise sewing, taking photos for the blog, or writing posts at the moment. I’m sure this will change once I get more established, and things start to flow more. I look at my sewing machine some mornings, and I sigh…. Wouldn’t it be nice to spend the day sewing? It would. But the again, I’m so excited about this new venture that I can’t bring myself to take a day off.
Maternity sewing. This weekend I will take some time to sew, because we have a wedding to attend next weekend, I have nothing to wear. And this time it’s an actual nothing, not like “I have 10 dresses that fit and I can’t choose” nothing. At this point I have two options – either to refashion a dress I have in my stash and make it prego-friendly, or to make something from scratch. The practical side of me says to refashion, as it’s a dress that’s too big for me anyway, and this is the only time I’m going to fill that bust. My creative side says to make something from scratch, as the dress isn’t really appealing to my aesthetic right now. But, to waist all that fabric on a dress I’m probably only going to wear once… Hmm, we’ll see which side wins when I sit down to sew.
I’m planning to sew a few transition pieces that I can wear both now and postpartum, but I can’t promise I’ll actually get to making them. Right now, I have plenty of clothes to get me through the pregnancy, so I don’t see the need to make even more. That’s the other thing about creating at this point. I don’t want to create something I’ll only wear for a couple months, and then who know’s when I’ll wear it again. And sewing anything that’s not maternity is also not an option right now as I can’t try anything on, and I don’t know how my body will look like later on.
I’ll just channel all that energy into the nesting phase and sew and create for our apartment. I’m having the urge to move and look for a new place, but I know it makes more sense for us to stay where we are at this point. I do have major plans to spruce this place up before the little one gets here, and start sharing some before and afters with you as well.
Whew! That’s all from me today. I hope you enjoyed this little update.
I don’t know about you, but I’m really looking forward to this year. I’ve never been big on making New Year’s resolutions, but I do love the promise of a new set of 365 days (or 366 as it is this year). In the last couple of year I have been setting yearly goals for myself, and last year we did it together with Rein. We’re definitely doing that this year as well (as soon as we get back from the holiday).
Last year was also the first year I chose a guiding word to lead me through the year (read more about Ali Edward’s One little Word project), and I’m definitely going to keep doing that for years to come.
My one little word for 2016 is GROWTH.
With our little one on the way, it seems the perfect word for our year, but not only that. I also feel like this is going to be a growth year for me personally, and in my business as well.
I want to grow the blog – not only in numbers, but in content and quality. I’ve been thinking a lot about what I want this space to be in the future, as I’m no longer blogging for business here. I’m shifting my focus on creating content that inspires me and helps me develop my skills as a seamstress and maker.
I want to grow my sewing skills. I feel I’ve been stuck in my skills for the past couple of years and it’s time for me to step out of that comfort zone. I’d love to learn how to make lingerie, and maybe finally make a coat for myself. There will definitely be some baby-related sewing, but I’d also love to grow my own wardrobe with self-stitched garments, and develop my personal style.
I want to grow my photography skills. This is something that I keep on setting as a goal, but haven’t made a lot of progress on so far. I’d love to take pretty photos of our baby once she’s here and document our little family, so need to master my DSLR more and grow in my skills as a photographer. For the last few years, I’ve mostly taken photos with the blog in mind. My goal is to start documenting the sweet little things that make up our everyday life.
I want to grow into new avenues online. I feel I’ve been stuck in my comfort zone for far too long when it comes to blogging. I’ve been thinking about maybe hosting a craft night online. What do you think? Would anyone be interested in crafting with me?
I want to grow as a person. This will be a given, but I also want to be intentional about it. This year I’ll become a mom, and that will grow me in ways I can’t even imagine at this point, but I’d also love to push my mental boundaries in other areas of life.
I want to grow my dreams. With the birth of our baby in May, one of my biggest dreams will come true. I’d like to focus on growing my other dreams as well this year. I feel like everything is possible if I give it my all.
As much as I love setting super specific goals, I’m more hesitant to do that this year, as becoming a first-time mom will most
probably definitely turn my world upside down. That being said, I’m still going to set business goals, family goals, and personal goals. I’ll just be prepared to make changes along the way. I believe there’s no point in waiting for a “better time” to start taking steps towards a dream. Even if I don’t end up achieving every goal on the list, I’ve still have made a lot of progress.
What’s your one little word this year?